When Do Women Get Cared For (by Men)? Introducing Hetero-Insistence

As women, we are the caregivers and the holders. But we are radically uncared for and unheld ourselves. It’s not fair: and, to a large extent, men can fix it.

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I am writing tired. Two weeks ago, my husband underwent a long-anticipated, much-needed, but fairly brutal, surgery. Everything, I’m pleased to say, went wel…