Your Partner is not a Project

Against a certain kind of aspiration, when it comes to marriage—redux

The other day I wrote a post that was not as well worked-out as it should have been. That’s OK with me, really: I write in this space in order to put ideas out there quickly, often in an unpolished form. I like the idea of sometimes making my mistakes in a relatively open forum. Unlike an article, or a book, which are years and years in the making, this…