Archive - More to Hate

The Trouble with Dr. Becky’s “Good Inside” Paradigm

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12 hrs ago •

My First Live—and a Flash Sale

Announcing my first live, with Talia Mae Bettcher

Jun 15 •

Substack is a Dangerous Game for Writers

Is gamifying our writing worth the cost?

Jun 15 •

Stupid C*nt Writing Stupid Things

Seven myths about being a feminist writer on the internet

Jun 13 •

Your Father's Day Gift Guide

All the ideas you need to make Dad’s day extra special

Jun 9 •

Andrew Cuomo is the Sex Pest Next Door

And what Trump and Musk reveal about sexual misconduct allegations

Jun 7 •

Five Career Highlights

They are not what you might have expected

Jun 4 •

May 2025

On the genuine importance—and pain—of caring about your child’s emotional life

May 31 •

When Community is Toxic

We lionize community. Sometimes we'd be better off without it.

May 27 •

I Will Never Look Like a Professor

On the pain—and joys—of professional misrecognition

May 24 •

You Do Not Write Alone

You are a vital part of a larger conversation—and no AI can do what you do.

May 23 •

If You Hate Your Husband, Get Divorced

A recent New York Times essay normalizes men’s negligence in relationships, while detailing everything we need to know to condemn him.

May 18 •

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